Flirting With Women

Let me ask you a question...

Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?

Do you know the reason for this occurrence?

Chances are it was because you did not know how to flirt properly with the woman.

You should know that flirting is essential in the attraction process. If you do not do it at all or do it wrong, you may blow your chances with a woman.

What is the importance of flirting?

This is simple flirting creates sexual tension.

When there is no sexual tension within your interactions, there will be no attraction. When you do not have attraction, this places you in a different category.

You guessed it - A FRIEND!

You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her.

Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.

See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating your sexual interest in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.

These are mixed signals.

Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.

Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:

MISTAKE #1: They Are Too Obvious

Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don't realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.

You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.

MISTAKE #2: They Are Not Obvious Enough!

There are men who communicate no interest at all, since they assume the woman knows how they feel. This catches a woman by surprise because she has not clue of his interest.

MISTAKE #3: They Rely More On Words Than Actions

Flirting has a good deal to do with the words you use; however, non-verbal body language is a more powerful method. These are those little things such as, tilting your head, raising an eyebrow or casting a wicked little smile, since they give new meaning to otherwise innocent remarks.

MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously

Flirting, when done right, is light and fun. When guys try and make flirting more serious romantic gestures, the tension begins to break down.

When you or the woman is not enjoying the flirting, something is wrong.

I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?

Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.

Let us say you are at a bar, for example and the woman you are with orders a drink and then asks if you would like one as well, you can jokingly say to her, You aren't trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me, are you, while adding a nod and a wink.

This communicates your interest, it's insinuating sex, but you're not coming outright and saying it. It's implied, and it's fun, and its light hearted.

Another example would be, if a girl says something raunchy or naughty to you, you might respond with something like "Stop trying to seduce me, you vixen! You know I don't put out on the first date."

Do you understand how all this works?

As you begin flirting more and more, you begin to get a bit more obvious about your interests, although you never really step over that line.

As you do this, you'll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright SEDUCTION.

Now the real fun begins.